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Farren West's avatar

Very well written. I sooooo agree the meaning of life is not to avoid pain but to embrace the pain that change may bring. We may want less or desire to live a simpler less materialistic life but we must embrace all the colors of the rainbow that life has to offer. Enjoy the ride for sitting on the sidelines is a close cousin to laying in a coffin. Recently I have really been contemplating the word Distraction...how many things do we do each day that create distraction. Distraction from all that beauty life has to offer to sidestep the pain of really feeling all the feels :-) Phone addiction, work addiction, Netflix binging has become a great distraction so many people are embracing to forget the pain of a sh*t job, or a less than ideal relationship...or heck just work more and more...western society frames you as a super hero now you worked 80 hrs last week. I think these are all forms of laziness in avoiding the variety of amazing feelings life can become if you're open to remove distraction and look around. Warning you may see things you don't like, what to feel but you will definitely feel more alive in this short life we have. I think the "Phone Pacifier" paints a great picture of the majority of us living a distracted life...(Upgrading to paid).

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Rob Dixon's avatar

Desire has gotten a bad rap, as has the fashion to stifle all emotions, to closet them as the enemy. I agree Tommy, to desire the right things is essential to leading a fulfilling life. To feel desire, like to err, is human. Risk, action, boldness, a robust vitality, even anger, properly channeled at the right time, are all essential to a healthy, happy life. Love, ah love, to desire the happiness of another……..”to have loved and lost is better than to never have loved at all” - Shakespeare.

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